How a Negative Mind Will Never Give You a Positive Life

pos lifeA negative mind  can only bring negativity into a person’s life. Negative energy attracts negative circumstances, negative people, and negative situations. It’s a universal law that  what you put out is exactly what comes back into your life.

None wants to have a negative mind but they don’t realize that it’s their habits that create their negative mind. Which habits bring negativity into your life?

Tiny, little, innocent things that you might not think could make a difference in anyone’s life are the dirty little culprits. Things such as complaining and blaming are two of the worst things you can do. Complaining is straight up thinking about the bad side of a situation. Blaming is giving up complete responsibility for your life which, in itself, brings in negativity.

Looking at a person’s fault rather than what’s good about them can be a devastating habit which can destroy your overall attitude as well as your overall relationship with that person.

Expecting a bad outcome in a situation rather than believing in a good one, can be a habit that can only bring a bad outcome most of the time. Studies show that you usually get what you expect. The more the negative outcome happens, the more you expect it and it becomes a circle of doom.

Repeating or sharing bad things that happen can only bring more bad things to happen. What you think about and speak about – comes about. Think about the way you want the situation to turn out and put the unpleasant situation behind you. It’s over – don’t perpetuate that energy by spreading it around to others.

Replaying experiences in your mind that didn’t go the way you wanted is a sure-fire way to tell your mind you want more of them. See it in your mind the way you wanted it to happen and you will actually change the energy of the situation.

Check your habits..once you recognize that you have a habit to work on, you’ve already begun to change negativity to positivity. Pick one right now and consciously make a change. It takes a positive mind to have a positive life and you can learn to have a positive mind.






How to Get High Without Drugs

person-110303_1280I know people who live on an absolute high – day after day and they never take a drug. How do they do it? They get high on life. It’s a simple strategy…but first; let’s look at why people decide to resort to drugs?

A person, who is addicted to drugs or some other mind-bending substance, finds it an awesome high from their desperate, current life – or something that previously happened that they want to forget. The addiction gives them an escape that is like being free. It’s being free from a loss, an experience, a sad life, and actually, anything they want to forget or get away from. They have decided the ONLY way out is to escape reality. The problem is it’s a temporary high and it actually prevents you from living an happy life.

How about a permanent high? Wouldn’t that be better? You can be free anytime you decide. If your reality is not what you want, you have the power to change it. When you are down and out and stuck in slow, negative emotional energy, it’s hard to even believe there is a way to happiness. There is! It all starts with a new habit.

The habit is to letting go of judgment! What ever you see, hear, or happens, or has happened, let it be okay!! (The only exception is if there is a situation where you are being abused or are afraid. Sometimes when you are in that situation, you might get used to that type of high. That is as dangerous as drugs, or more so. You MUST change the environment. Get out or get the abuser out!)

Here’s how to start being high on life. Whatever happens to you, good or bad, simply do not judge, but see at least one good thing in the situation and say to yourself, “This is awesome!” Feel good about that one thing. As you do that, your brain will open to bring you a little more awesome …… and when you persist, pretty soon, you will attract more and more awesome and soon, awesome things you never thought could happen in your life will happen.

As you go through each day, look around and find things where you can say, “That is awesome!” Find an awesome rock, flower, person, something someone is wearing, something someone says, a butterfly, a drink….whatever! There is a lot of awesome out there is you look for it which can give you a high feeling. When you do that, it will grow and grow and eventually, you will be high on life.