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Why you shouldn’t make New Year’s Resolutions

DON’T make New Year’s Resolutions this year…

Did I really say that? Yes I did and there is a very good reason I did.

Don’t even think about making New Year’s Resolutions or any goals, for that matter, unless you really know you can keep them this time.

What are goals, anyway? They are promises you make to yourself, which makes you feel even worse than ever when you don’t keep them. Goals are different from dreams. Dreams are pie in the sky. If you truly have goals, they have specific details and a time line attached to them.

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It’s not that you don’t know what you want, or didn’t know last year for that matter. You DO know what you want, but the fact is, most people simply don’t know how to make THIS TIME different and actually accomplish the goals that they set.

You have the best of intentions – but it’s not even a matter of intent. It’s also not a matter of time or not having the will power you need. So WHY hasn’t it worked before?

There is an obvious reason why you and everyone else don’t keep their resolutions and it’s because of certain distractions. Yes… there are things that are going to distract you from your resolutions and goals, and if you’re going to make your resolutions stick – you must deal with these distractions.

So what are they?

The 3 main distractions are:

MONEY PROBLEMS

How can anyone really focus on goals when you’re broke or have debt hanging over your head? This is one of the major reasons for divorces – people fight about money.

RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS

Speaking about couples fighting, if your relationship is stressed, your whole life is stressed. You are focused on another person, another situation, and those promises you made to yourself get put on the back burner.

BLOCKS IN YOUR PHYSICAL ENVIRONMENT

Most people don’t even have a clue their home can be blocking love AND money from coming to them.

When you know what your distractions are, THEN you can take the steps to overcome them, and get back on track to achieving your goals.

So which of these stopping YOU?

You CAN have an amazing day every day and achieve every goal in your life.