Wouldn’t it be nice to be able to control everything in your life? Not really. First of all, no one likes a control freak and secondly, you would be missing out on a lot of new unexpected opportunities that would come to you because you wouldn’t see them as opportunities while you were busy controlling. Really, it’s not something we need to even talk about, because as hard as you try, you won’t be able to control everything and everyone in your life. Trying to control is wasted energy and one that frequently results in frustration and anger. There is only one solution, LET IT GO…LET LIFE FLOW.
Life holds so much for you that you can’t even imagine and often things you would prevent if you were able to control you life, are things that turn out to be the best things that ever happened to you.
When you aren’t engaged in controlling, life is exciting and you go into each day with curiosity and enjoyment.
Worrying is like sitting in a rocking chair. You do a lot of work and don’t get anywhere. Worrying puts you in a negative, low vibrational energy. When in that low-energy state, you attract only low-energy things and people. In fact, the more you worry, the more you are projecting to your subconscious mind that the things you are worried about should happen. Worrying is detrimental to your life and doesn’t benefit you in any way. Worrying flushes your body with toxic chemicals.
What do you have in your home that you haven’t used for the last 6 months? It’s clutter and it clutters your life in a way that blocks things that are trying to come to you. Unclutter your home. Take a few moments each day – or – take a whole day and start on your clean up. Cleaning up your ‘stuff’ will clean up your energy and allow new opportunities and people to enter your life.
What do you have in your head that is cluttering you? How about things that you should have gotten rid of ages ago? How about things that don’t even concern you but are other people’s business? How about things that people said to you that prevent you from moving forward to the life you want to live. YOU can do, be, or have anything you want, just make room physically, mentally, and emotionally for it to be accomplished. Give up all thoughts and beliefs that don’t benefit you in any way.
Recently someone asked me, “What’s wrong with complaining? It makes me feel good when I complain.” Really? That low-vibrational feeling of mentally and verbally revisiting what is wrong in your life makes you feel good? Well, good, because when you complain, you’ll get more of what you’re complaining about. That’s just the way the Law of Attraction works. Yes, you might have to consciously watch your words for a little while if you want to change this habit, however it’s worth it and it’s as hard as you might think. You started the habit – simply unstart it NOW.
“You did it. It’s not my fault. You are to blame. That’s why things in my life aren’t working out.” WRONG! You are in charge of your life however until realize it and quit letting another person have the power over why your life isn’t working, you will continue to be disappointed with your life. No one can have any control over your life unless you give it to them. Stop blaming right now you’ll be delighted with your new attitude and what immediately happens in your life.